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Choose Your Words. Change Your Life.
Welcome to Happier Made Simple™: Choose Your Words. Change Your Life.
This community is for you if you want to Live Happier- Every Day , taking small, immediate steps.
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Happier: The Authentic and Resilient Foundation for Success
John Jaramillo and I had so much fun sharing ideas, that this Book Leads podcast/show went way over the hour! Hope you enjoy listening as much as we loved chatting about leadership, books, setting and reaching goals but with a solid foundation of what really matters in the big picture of your life:
Badass, or Balance?- What Matters More?
Let’s say you want to reach for the stars, attain that audacious goal, drive a BMW.
There are lots of books and workshops that teach you how to visualize those positive outcomes, face your fears, walk over those hot coals, get yourself behind the wheel of that fancy car.
Wahoo! But – wait.
Aging Proudly: Please Stop Telling Me I Have to Look Younger
That’s how old I’ll be (or, my body will be) in October of this year.
What?!?!?
So, yeah – I still have months left in my 60’s – but the big 7-0 is right around the corner.
And to that I say:
Yay! Wahoo!
Or I’m getting there.
Happier Made Simple™ is an Audiobook Too!
If you've been hoping to hear Happier Made Simple "read by the author", you've got your wish! Soon it will be on Audible, but in the meantime you can get it through Kobo/Walmart or Chirp!
here is a sample:
Nine parenting Lessons Re-Learned: A Weekend of Grandbaby-sitting
Losing the tv remote can be a good thing. (Really, we didn’t fake it.) The morning was more creative, less argumentative, and they “forgot” to have the morning snack they usually think they need.
Embracing the Muse: What Are We Afraid of?
When I left Morning Radio, I swore I would never wake up before the sunrise again.
I’d earned it. 3:15 AM for eight years, seriously?
Yet here I am, coffee in hand, watching the sun rise through the trees outside my kitchen window.
Invincible: On Audacity, Big Magic and Being a Happily Flawed Badass
I think Elizabeth Gilbert and Jen Sincero are changing my (literal) dreams.
Take last night. I had the best dream.
(Ugh, yeah, I know Not a fan of dream stories either. #sorrynotsorry.)
Why so great, you ask? (of course you do. I’m making up both sides of this conversation)
Are We Foolish to Hope? To Trust?
It’s common to see optimism as foolishness. Because not everything “works out”—at least, not the way we pictured it.
Our specific hopes and dreams may turn out to have been, well, incorrect.
Oh, no, not that!
Happier, Not Happiness. Why? Setting the Record Straight
“Randye, I really hesitated bringing up the topic of happiness tonight, because of your book. I don’t want to negate your message.”
Those words, from the leader of our Mussar study group (I’ll explain later) last night.
I so appreciate her concern, but immediately move to set the record straight.
Hindsight Resolutions: What Got Done in 2021?
Happy New Year! If you feel like you’ve already let yourself down by not yet making any Resolutions for 2022, you can opt to give yourself a break.
It Is What It Is: How Accepting Reality Leads to Happier
Core Phrase #2: It Is What It Is.
If this sounds familiar, it’s because (a) I did not make up the phrase – it’s widely used, and (b) the Reality concept here is also about something we also hear a lot about: Acceptance.
Whenever I find myself spinning my wheels about "why me?" and "this shouldn't be this way"...I realize I'm doing just that...spinning my wheels, and with absolutely no traction. In mud. Or snow.
Aging Proudly: 5 Ways to Fight Back Against "Age-Defying"
68. And a half. That's my age number, and I'm proud of it.
Or at least I'm working on it. Constantly.
My little grandkids will announce my age number loud and proud to anyone in line at Stop and Shop - so why does part of me cringe when they do?
Processing Time: Why Happier Does Not Mean Constantly Happy
I had a day on Sunday. You know, where I just couldn't shake my sadness the way I usually can.
Ever have one of those? (If you say no, then you may want to check your pulse.)
As a "happier" writer, and the person people seem to seek out when they want a more optimistic perspective, it isn't easy to fall into the occasional hole of a less-than-stellar mood.
Hello Again, Stranger!: Tiptoeing Back Into Small Encounters
How I've missed you, person I meet by accident. We've been in our caves, zooming away, and hiding behind our masks for too long.
April's Word: Complete. How Did it Go?
Well…is anything ever really complete? (*sighs* started with a disclaimer…no-judgment zone)
As you may be aware, this year I opted out of New Year’s Resolutions (okay, opted out again) and chose instead a try-and-see approach simply by choosing a word for each month, no pressure, and seeing what might happen.
Unmoored: What To Do if Life Goes Adrift
I'm not a huge interpreter of dreams, but last night's was a doozy. My home was about to fall into a sinkhole. ( What ?!?! )
So I had to climb onto the roof, leaving behind all I had worked so hard to create. Carefully chosen wallpaper, brownies baking in the oven - all abandoned; I climbed up, nearer to the sky (with a friend, identity unknown) as the house drifted into the water (I guess I had scored a waterfront property in this dream, wahoo) - destination entirely unknown. No map. Just safety from disaster, and no choice but to trust that we would land somewhere. Somehow. And eventually we did land - on an island where my family was among others waiting to share this new experience.
Art: Creating for the Non-Artist
Word of the month for March:
Art.
Why?
Because I'm not an artist - at least, not a visual one.
Why do it, then?
What’s in a Word? Turns Out, a Whole Lot.
Screw New Year’s Resolutions. Especially this year, unless the resolution is to just, well, stay alive. (Stupid Covid.) I can’t remember the last time I made a resolution, anyway, since my higher self knows they only make it until mid-January at best. Then it’s another whole 11½ months of Oreos buttered popcorn, and guilt until we “resolve” again.
Dear Evi: Wishing You Simple Childhood Joys
Dearest grandbaby Eviana -
New Year's Eve Day has forever gained a new meaning, leaving things like resolutions in the dust of a much more important focus: your birthday.
This year, you will be one whole year old on December 31, and you've already changed the world. Well - ours, at least. Your joy, your love, your needs, your snarky sense of fun and play...what an amazing person you already are!
In a Word: New Year Changes Made Simple
Bah! Humbug! to New Year's Resolutions.
I mean, seriously, have they ever really worked for you? If so, then you are a stellar human being and - seriously - I applaud you.
So this is for the rest of us.